An Open Letter to Our White Readers

No Kings protest, Erie PA, Oct. 18, 2025

Guest Post by Kristine Schwartzman

Dear Readers:

Grandfather's Gift began as a way to tell the true story of Nancy Jean's great-grandmother, Nancy Kendall, and her experiences as a stop on the Underground Railroad. Since then, we have expanded our focus to include much of the history of racial discrimination throughout the years, down to the present day. 

It's no secret that this project is written and administered by two white women. We've done our best to talk about difficult issues of racial discrimination, but we have no illusions that we know what it's like to be Black in America. 

We don't know what it feels like to fear for our lives during a routine traffic stop. We don't know what it means to be sitting in our own homes and then shot. We don't know what it means to be a Black mental health professional who goes to the aid of a white patient, and then is shot by police. It's unfathomable to most of us white Americans, but a fact of life for Black and brown people in this country. 

We can't truly know what it's like for people of color to have to hide in their homes because they fear being pulled into police custody and deported, or watch as their families are ripped apart. We sit in privilege. 

History was made on Saturday, October 18, 2025. The No Kings rally became the largest mass protest ever in the U.S. People protested for a host of different reasons, including the loss of voting and civil rights, the despicable treatment of immigrants, loss of protections for LGBTQIA+ communities, and the undermining of women's autonomy as guardians over their own bodies. Peaceful marchers came out in mass to draw attention to and object to what is happening in America. 

What you did not see in the crowds on Saturday were a lot of people of color. And, with good reason. Black and brown people have targets on their backs. Coming together in large numbers is too risky. ICE is real, police brutality is real. It's one thing to protest and risk arrest if you are white. It's quite another for a person of color. 

So, white Americans - it's up to us. As long as our immigrant, Black and marginalized communities suffer, so do we. We have to stand up and take a stand. Our risk is marginal. We have to be there for others in our communities, and on the larger stage. 

​Here are a few ways to make our voices heard and help those targeted by this administration:
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• Join marches & protests. Stay peaceful and do not engage with hecklers.
• Encourage others to vote in every single election, including midterms. Local elections are extremely important.
• Protect your neighbors. If you see the police engaging with a person of color, you have a First Amendment Right to record what is happening. Without endangering yourself, get close enough to the situation to hear what is going on. Use your phone to record the incident. If an officer asks what you are doing, tell them you are there to observe and lend support. A watched police encounter is less likely to become volatile, although, we know that's not a given. Several people recorded George Floyd's murder, screamed at the officer to stop, and tried to intervene to no avail. The police officer who murdered Floyd was convicted largely because of those witnesses and recordings, however.
• Place yard signs on your lawn. I have two right now. One says "Hands Off," the other says "No Kings." I live in a small, rural, very red town. People driving by have actually stopped and told me how much they appreciate me putting signs out. They are afraid to do it, but knowing someone else thinks like they do makes them feel less alone.
• Write letters to the editor. Use facts and concise, measured arguments.
• Boycott advertisers who support the current regime. As of this writing, a few examples of companies enabling this administration include Amazon, Home Depot, and Walmart.
• Be there for members of your community. Whatever their political views, when they need help after a job loss, or just to make ends meet, offer help either directly or through local food pantry groups. 
• Donate to groups like the ACLU, and civil rights group that do the legal work, as well as groups that feed the hungry and provide shelter and necessities for those in need.
• Be always ready to respectfully engage when talking to others about what is happening.
• Stay hopeful. And, joyful. If there was one thing about the protests on Saturday that stood out, it was the fact that they were filled with joy. Inflatable costumes - we had a penguin, a pink pig, a lot of bananas, a T. rex, a frog, and others at the event in Erie, PA  - displayed the playful spirit of protestors. There were songs, chants and lots of laughs. 
• Take care of yourself. Don't let the bad stuff take over. Enjoy game night, celebrate the birthdays, live, laugh, and love. 

​Together, we will get through this, and make our country a better place for everyone. 

Thank you for being here!

--Kristine & Nancy Jean

Resources: 
What Should We Do Now? - Robert Reich
10 effective things citizens can do to make change in addition to attending a protest - The Conversation